下载并重温了一个电影（别骂我俗），《Serendipity》。男主的好友在男主追逐soulmate失意后，假设如果他在当时死掉，而为他写的“悼词”。他在把这个“悼词”交给男主前说“在古希腊，人们是不为死者写悼词的。他们只问，Did he have passion?”。以下就是这篇悼词的大部分：

Jonathan Trager, prominent televisionproducer for ESPN, died last night from complications of losing his soulmate and his fiance. He was 35 years old and soft-spoken and obsessive.

Trager never looked the part of a hopeless romantic. But in the final days of his life, he revealed an unknown side of his psyche.

This hidden quasi-Jungian personality surfaced during the Agatha Christie-like pursuit for his long-reputed soulmate, a woman whom he only spent a few precious hours with.

Sadly, the protracted search ended late Saturday night...in complete and utter failure.

Yet even in certain defeat, the courageous Trager secretly clung to the belief...that life is not merely a series of meaningless accidents or coincidences. Uh-uh.